Tuesday, 2 July 2013

Mr. Right?

Almost every girls dream is to find the perfect partner. Most of the girls want to be with their dream guy. It is like girls have a list when they choose their partner. Most probably you would go for the one that best matches your list. But have you thought of the question, is that really the perfect dream guy that you really want to be with the rest of your life.

 When a girl is looking for her dream guy what are usually the criteria? Most probably he should be good looking, loving, caring, rich and etc. Girls would always hope for the perfect guy to come, the one that they have always been wanting in their list. Those that are really fortunate may get the dream guy that they have been hoping for. But not all girls get what they want.

In the growing up journey, you might slowly start to realise who is the perfect person for you. It doesn’t have to match all the criteria that you’ve listed. Someday when you start thinking back of the list that you’ve made you might even laugh at it or you might realise the opportunity that you may have in the past. If you’ve still been waiting for that perfect guy on your list you might not even find him.

Sometimes in life we have to think more openly, don’t only see things in one perceptive. If you only stay in the one same direction it might not lead you far. Open up yourself and start seeing things in a different perspective. The perfect guy that you want doesn’t have to be the one that you’ve always dreamt of. He might not be the dream guy you always wanted but he might bring something better in your life.


As I grow older and understand things better each day I realise that the criteria of my perfect dream guy doesn’t have to fulfill everything in the list. What’s important is that the person accepts you for who you are and loves you endlessly no matter what happens. If that person really loves you for you, don’t let him go. Appreciate what you can have with him and do not complain about the things that you can’t have from him. 

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